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Hi ~ How about a husband who won't respect the need for cleanliness? (he's now the ex) And don't say it was my job to clean in the first place, because I worked FULL TIME too and more hours than HE did.
Once I purposely messed up something that HE always kept just so -- in order to get a point across. Did it work?? Heck no. Then I let the house get into a REAL mess before i cleaned it up. Did he notice?? heck no. I flew into a rage and asked him who did he think was going to clean ALL this up? He said "well, YOU of course." That did it. I got in the car and disappeared for several hours, which he didn't like because he HAD to know every place I ever went - this time he didn't have a clue. lol
When I got home hours later, I asked that question again. He answered "Well, I guess us." So WE cleaned it up. After that, WE kept the house clean - not just me. Peace, Lee
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