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Old Dec 29, 2010, 06:16 AM
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Bless your heart! Good for you for getting it all out and not stuffing it. And you must have a wonderful mother who loves you very very much ~ you are extremely lucky to have her. I'm glad she set up an appointment for you.

Please don't feel bad for what you call "adding stress to her." She's your Mother!!! She loves you -- I'm sure she could tell that there was something bothering you before you told her -- Mother's have a way of knowing. I always know when something is bothering MY daughter or son. So it was better than you told her than make her just sit and worry what it was about. And of COURSE she's saved you time and time again -- that's what Mother's DO.

You should feel proud for getting it all out -- but please don't feel bad. Your mother can handle anything that you THINK you placed on her. Believe me, you didn't harm her. This is all part of being a parent. Please update us after you've seen your therapist, okay?? God bless you and take care. Hugs, Lee