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Genn, safe hugs to you...
One of my emotional abusers came on Christmas Eve and then again on Christmas morning. I even had to make breakfast for him because it was my turn, ugh.
I wrote a letter to my family and told them I just couldn't be alone with him. I kept away from him in this small room. When we were in the small room I sat really close to my son and when I made food for them I thought about doing something nice for the others NOT him.
Stay with someone really safe okay...DON'T be alone with him/her, even in the kitchen, okay?
Maybe just be there for a little bit of time, if that would help.
Does your brother-in-law or sister know this person is an abuser to you (and maybe to others)? How does he/she get invited? My emotional abuser is related to our family. I have not found a successful way to be completely away from him, yet. It is emotionally draining.
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“Science without religion is lame.
Religion without science is blind.”
Albert Einstein
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