Hm. I don't know if you are referring to me. However, perhaps, it is the fact that "new" people have joined and it is not the same people posting constantly. If you look at the forum, there is alot of the same people, so when "new" people come, of course they have different opinions.
I never said therapy was crap. My position has been that we are the therapist's job, when many seem to want to believe that they are "part of the therapist's life." T's care in the boundaries and how their job allows for it. If they cared the way many of you want, they would call when you are sick, they would allow constant contact, they would want to be with you "outside of the therapy space."
Therapy works because our dreams and fears and wishes and needs appear. But the JOB of the therapist is to work through those things, so we come out healthier and not needing to see a T anymore.
I was amazed when I joined that so many people think there T "cares" outside the title of their JOB. And the easiest way to realize this is to think in terms of $$. If you had no-more for along time, your T would stop seeing you. Because we are their job, that they care about, but none-the-less, the job. Thats all I think.
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