(((((((((( Googley )))))))))) In 3 yrs I have been angry with T for a whole range of things... this is one way I know it's not a "paid friend" relationship; for the sliding scale fee I pay, no friend woudl stand for the tirades I come up with some times ... what I wanted to tell you is that T's reaction will be different from that of anyone you have ever known; she weathers all; she is well adjusted enough to know that it's not really about her; the two of you will come out of it stronger.

I say, let yr anger rip - and learn from the experience. It's a wierd relationship, but it works....