<font color="darkgreen">[b]OF course you are all (well almost all of you) correct! This IS "just" an online website and is separate from IRL. Nothing that is said here can be fully trusted, simply for the fact that it's based upon opinions of others who are dealing with illness, as I am, and that no one here really does know me (though we like to think we know each other, don't we?) There has to be a division of feelings. It has to be important when others DO support me, but not important if some don't. This isn't really logical to me, but I'll work on it, since virtual relationships are different than IRL... thank you for your support.