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Old Dec 30, 2010, 02:44 AM
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yes they had good advice, take care to stay near a safe person all the time. i would also keep something in my pocket or hold in my hand to help comfort me or be something safe to talk to if things get bad. i have t's hanky which is soft and comforting or a little dinosaur which i can whisper to or think to and he can do silent RAWRS if needed. maybe think if you have anything like them that could help get you through? also not sure what time it ends, but maybe plan something soothing/safe/relaxing for self afterwards. even if its just some time in a nice shower or with nice smelling cream or watching a safe movie. take care.
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He said that we can email as MUCH as we want (100 times per day). Believe in this - it is challenging fears about being punished. It is okay to be seen. You are not a nuisance. "Too much" simply means exploration, not punishment/withdrawal. Trust in him.

Not looking at him is about keeping aspects of self hidden/secret. We know that is not the healthy choice. Keep working on this - you will get there.

Accept there are parts. Be kind and gentle with them. Working with parts and feelings is the key to happiness. We have been happy before when listened to them and accepted them and were open to feelings. Write in your journal - it is safe to do so.
Thanks for this!
genn, Hunny