I guess everyone's therapeutic experience and relationship with their T's are unique, and I am not in a position to judge or comment on anybody's t experience but mine. As long as the relationship works for all parties involved, I do have respect for it, regardless of what it may or may not look like to me.

Fortunately, I have a T who does care and has gone above and beyond for me, as I expect he has with other clients in my situation at the time. I consider myself very blessed in that relationship.

Personally, a T who didn't care would not work for me.