I'm sure it's possible if that's what both of you want to have happen - even if you have to have no contact for two years.

The imbalance that most people feel in therapy - when we tell about shameful or painful experiences in our past, when we admit our secrets, melt into a helpless puddle of tears - makes a future relationship too uncomfortable.

I'd also be uncomfortable explaining the connection that made us friends. So, I can say "We met at church/work/the pool/through our kids". I could not say "Oh, he/she used to be my therapist".

Plus, I'd like to be able to go back to my therapist for therapy, and not worry about how it impacts our personal life that I'm paying her to listen to me and help me. I prefer to have the therapist stay in her role.

Hope that helps you with your question!