lmao!!!

I think what I get from reading replys today is people have different attachment needs...I think as none of us are therapists we actually proberbly just criss-crossing each other and missing vital clues..at the end of the day I think what we all have in common is no one wants to hurt...what happened to us in our past does have a big effect on how we go about relating to people...and how we want to be related too...I badly wanted a woman to care about me...and now I've got that I ain't letting it go and I treasure it so badly...if others have had bad experiences with mental health proffesionals that is awful...I wish that sort of thing didnt happen, but alas it does..I guess if I was reading about someones "wonderful" therapist when I was hurting, then that would hurt me too...I dont think theres an easy answer for any of this..pain is the common factor..and treading carefully I guess should be the motto of the day??