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Originally Posted by BlackCanary
..... I'd like to be able to go back to my therapist for therapy, and not worry about how it impacts our personal life that I'm paying her to listen to me and help me. I prefer to have the therapist stay in her role..!
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BC this is very wise. How would it be to spend years (even many years) working with one particular T who fits you and helps you
and then after the main work is over, you become friends to some degree
and if anything else ever comes up, your T is not there any more. Your friend can only help you as much as other friends can; the impersonal wise guide has gone away & you face starting over with a stranger
