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Originally Posted by Perna
I would find another therapist and discuss this particular problem.
I don't know how your boyfriend could be that insensitive that you weren't interested in sex at that time but I would not want to be around him at the moment, that being the case. Maybe go see a therapist together since you obviously have issues he's not aware of or able to perceive correctly?
Everyone dissociates to a certain degree, you are just a more extreme degree during events similar to those you experiences before with the first rape. It's not "bad" or wrong or anything, it's your mind and body protecting themselves the best they can. Find another therapist who will work with you!
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Haha, yeaaaah. I was rather pissed off and about 20 other hurtful emotions for at least 24 hours. Being around him today was awkward. But we're talking and it is helping. I'm beginning to see he is sincerely sorry. He was a bit tipsy last night...so I'm sure that wasn't helping his male cognition, haha! and we just started seeing a therapist together 2 weeks ago : ) Thanks for the suggestion! Unfortunately he is out of the office for the next 2 weeks. And I'm definitely struggling to understand this stuff. I'm a medic. I fix people. And its embarassing to admit that I need fixed. We medics make HORRIBLE patients, lol. I'm just confused. He says I kina moved a couple times and the movements were ones that made him I wanted to have sex. But I wasn't aware of anyting. So if I did those things then am I responsible for those actions, even if I wasn't cognizant of them? Anways, thank you very much. : )