i dont know why this is so. i think all these issues are personal to everyone. so if i don't capitalize anything, will that help? LOL

do you want to know what i see...that perhaps is what is bothersome to me.... since you asked.

i see many posters with family, spouses, kids, grandkids, friends, etc, people that love them. gifts...amazing gifts in life.
and i guess i believe that having that should be the focus on one's life, as well as being well.
we all die before you know it and those people in your life that love you are what living should be about..because tomorrow they could be gone or you could be gone.
a T is not going to give you what the people that love you can.

and then there are thousands of people in the world who dont have any of those amazing gifts and would die for them, maybe just one.

and this is not a judgement, its my issue and you asked, but when i see what i think people are throwing away, it kills me.

when i see people who feel their T is more important or as important as your children, grandchildren, spouse if they are decent, parents if they are decent, etc. i dont get it, because familial love is the most amazing gift that so many people take for granted.

when its gone, you cant get it back. a million good T's in the world can't take the place of a family.

is that what you wanted to know?