I like Mat and Al, the problem solvers. They appeal to the more male side of my personality. I need to update my will. As it is, I am packing up some of my stuff and giving it to various of my nieces, depending to what side of the family my "heirlooms have come from. Some of them I rescued because certain people had no idea of what was in front of them an they were tossing the stuff because they thought it was "junk". the girls get invited up and get to choose what they like, and their moms have, until now, gotten to take care of the jewlery for them.

My boys have an executor. Everyone knows who it is. things still have to be updated. it is always a pain when new kids come, parents are old, property is bought sold, gained lost.... HUGGGS