Uh oh, fayerody, hope I too didn't offend you. I see this whole world as a soap opera, you know, like Shakespeare said,"The world is a stage and we each must play our part." Referring to the drama, not meaning to belittle the agony of the participants. And I, for one, asked to be kept posted as I care that VL work her stuff out in a positive way.
Sorry you're still hurting. Maybe you need to leave this thread alone for a while and take care of yourself some more.
Being betrayed is just such a mind f--k, hearbreaking, thing to get over. I care about your struggle too.