Hard to tell. I was raised with the attitude, if it is wrong, fix it. My father and my materna grandfather always had the attitude, you did not look around for someone else to do it. You did it if you identified the problem and could see the solution. My mother was always you complained and distanced yourself speedily until a "man" (or an expert) came and fixed it. Your contribution was making noise.
I tended to be like my dad. Later it was pointed out that from his back ground, it was a form of "noblise oblige" (his family was old nobility back in the day) that his family always has practiced. You, no one else, were responsible to be the first into action. So, the do gooding in his family was automatic, you were raised to do it without thinking. A mixture of religion and ancient sword swinging code of honor most clans ignored even back then and we're still walking straight into warzones and deworming babies in famine struck countries all the while no one is following. Figures! That's how you end up FORMER nobility

! HUGGGS!