Ive revived this to vent. Why is it that some assume what they are doing in T is so much more advanced than everyone else. Why would someone say that everyone else is hiding from their problems while they themselves are so much more advanced. Why would someone say that people who write in a certain way, or who post in a certain way are somehow less capable of dealing with thier issues. Why would a person continually refer to how advanced they were in their theraputic process and how backward everyone else is. Would a person not know that this is hurtful and somehow lessens the struggles that others have? Would a person not realise that they are pointing fingers, in a place where we should all be able to behave how we want (as long as we dont harm others). Is this not a place to just be? A place to express all aspects of ourselves without fear of condemnation?

Can my process not be as valuable as thiers? Can my feelings not be as important as theirs? Can my journey to recovery not be as profound as theirs?

It feels like its game playing and finger pointing and its not helpful.

Audrey