Thank you, Jan. This can't be said enough. In a community this size, there is rarely going to be a post where everyone agrees (unless it's about how great a job docjohn does here

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I feel our primary responsibility the ourselves and the community is to exercise emotional safety...when we can, of course. There are times that it can't be avoided. However, if we know that a person is often triggering or upsetting for us, we need to ignore or avoid their posts. If we feel the posts are against guidelines, then report to the appropriate Mod or Admin.
Well said, Jan. Well taken as well.
Thanks!
KD