Chronic mentioned that no matter what one tries, most of the time it would be wrong. This I understand. So in response to what sugar horse said, what are effective ways of trying to calm you down?

I know there are no sure fire answers. It all depends on the event, time of day, time of month, time of year, weather, any number of other things. And I am also aware that may work in some instances will not work at others. Even if the situation is the same, if it worked once it may not work again. But is there anything that is an absolute no-no?

I know not to push. That usually can make everything significantly worse.