also, knocking someone because they might know more than another or yourself, in a certain area is also not very supportive. How could someone prevent intelligence? I think sometimes ppl forget that noone would be suffering if they could have prevented the way they are right now... like it's a choice or something. It's easy to get caught up in the moment of another's "crisis" posting... when what we all need is level headed support.. if nothing else.. first, do no harm.