I have not been fortunate enough to encounter this yet, i did however find out my abuser had cancer of the pancreas a few years ago , sick as it may seem i was so overjoyed at the news i had to put the phone down so my mom could not hear the whoops of joy i let out!! unfortunately he survived !!! well they say the good die young the cxxp live forever!! I do know that when his time does eventually come i certainly will not grieve for any relationship we ever had I will celebrate the freedom and peace it will bring for me!
as for going to his funeral .... no chance he can rot in xxxx for all i care now!