okay, i don't know if i can post this, but here goes....

my sister's husband is having an affair with another woman. everyone knows, including my sister, so she threw him out of the house. now, i'm not saying it's all my brother-in-law's fault or all my sister's.

i have a couple friends at work (female) who also experienced the same thing. one divorced her husband, but in a really weird way, is still living with him. the other friend has worked it out, or so she says.

last week, my mom tells me that my sister's husband wants to come back home. my response was, no way! he'll just do it again! but my mom said, and this kind of shocked me, that all men stray. then she proceeded to tell me that her husband (my father) strayed. "They all do it," she said.

now, i know women "cheat" too. but i guess, since i'm a woman, thinking that i'd never be in a relationship with a man anyways, but just in case, i was wondering what other people thought. is it true?

i've been thinking how people want to find their "one true love" but i think it's more like 5 or 6. i think that everyone has more than one "soulmate" and that we just haven't met them all, or maybe when we're with one soulmate, another comes into our lives, etc.

does this make sense? i don't trust people anyways, but i guess it kind of shocked me that my mom would say what she did. she's in her late 70's. she's not senile.

edited to say: my father's dead, just so you know.

thanks for reading.

peace,

splash