It sounds like what you mean by "overly caring" means the T spends sleepless nights thinking about clients? I hope my T does not overly care about me (that sounds kind of dysfunctional, from how you describe it). I don't want my T to lose sleep over me and my concerns (or about his other clients either). VenusH, it was really interesting to me what you wrote about Ts "caring overly for each and every client." A possible corollary to that is that a T would care to the same extent about all his/her clients. (I realize that's not what you said, but it could be a corollary.) I don't believe my T cares to the same extent for all his clients. Do others believe a T cares the same for all his/her clients?