if you are going to pass judgement on one person atleast do it personally (sorry this kinda stuff messes with the paranoia).passing judgement over the internet is especially hard as is trust.as jesus said (i am not a christian, i just like him as a human being)'him without sin cast the first stone'. none of us are perfect so mabe we are not fit to judge others openly atleast.by all means share how we percieve each other if we think it may benifit, but there are more sensitive ways of doing this.