Thank you for providing your input on my post about my boyfriend's SZ. It helped. My bf had bouts of depression before he was diagnosed with SZ. So I really understand what you are talking about about here. It's so hard. I think love only goes so far, you can love a person but sometimes we have to save ourselves. It's just that simple, we are only human and only so much we can take.

Sometimes our ill loved ones don't get that. But it is such a personal choice what to do, I know some people can tough it out and be strong but others are like me, we internalize things and take every little thing personally that our ill partner does that isn't right. I wish I could rise about that but I don't know if I can.

I hope you will find the strength for whatever you want to create as an outcome. Good luck and take care.