Venus- I think that is reading a little too much into that question. I never once stated or implied that you didn't need support! This is a psychotherapy support site and that is why I used the word support.

I have no problem with you sharing the majority of opinion here or not, I simply wondered why you chose to hash this out if you were not interested in psychotherapy which is what your post referred to. I have not seen your other post about flirting with the idea. I went on the information solely available within the thread that I was commenting on.

If you are wondering if therapy will create more distress in your life let me tell you that it definately will bring up unwanted feelings and frusterations. Also you are right, it is indeed very expensive. A person must take personal inventory on which is the bigger risk; living your life as you are vs diving into a relationship that is more complex than any other you will ever experience.