Ironman, Hey, betrayal is the worst... I'm so sorry you invested in someone who couldn't appreciate your gifts.
You sound like a swell guy. Someday somebody will notice.
Till then, this is a great time of year to hook up with community organizations to do volunteer work, like feeding hungry folks. Many times, giving is filling. Plus,it's a great place to meet good people and not feel so lonely. (Yer dream woman might be there slinging hash already......) I wish you well.