I am a 28 yom who just ended a 4 year realtionship. It like many onther s had its ups and downs. We have a wonderful 15 mo son as well. We broke up multiple time and got back together a lot, not so much sine our son was born. It was all my doin the breaking up part. In the beginning it was more convionient to be with her than without her. Despite the rocky relationship our love for each other grew. We both hurt each other mutiple times. She however had a different upbrining than i and that is were we differed. She claimed bankruptcy, she got fired from 2 jobs due to her work etrhic and inability to show up on time. Plus she was disrespectfull towrds most people ie when she was given her engaement ring it wasnt the one she wanted and she wasnt happy. I gave her appliances for her appartment and my parents gave her furniture foe every roomin the place and she said well it is better than nothing. Over the past few year I have bailed her out giving over 10,000 dollars because of her irresponsibility. WE get along pretty well beside her disrespectfulness and imaturity. She moved out a 2 weeks ago, and we agreed to stay good friends and to try to stay somewhat close. Well she started dating somone with int that time and we were in the car for a while they other day and she vcalled hiom and stayed in the phone for a long time and preceded to tell me that she really likes him and doens niot what to screw it up with him. She has treatted me crappy ever since, but then she calls like nothing has happened, and she still wnats to be friends like we spoke. Before she left i really didnt want to touch her, but know I want to hold her more than anything. No after what she has done these past few week have hurt me more than anything in the past. I thought my love for her was over when we were living together, she repulsed an annyoed me at times. I think some of the hurt is me realizing that my family is no more. And never will be with her. PLease help