Black dragon,
I agree with Pat on this, big time. Please do not quit therapy and meds., don't give up on yourself, just because the people around you (family/work) are ignorant about Bipolar, most likely they are ignorant about many mental disorders, and that is very hard to deal with.
Too many stigmas,stereotypes, that really complicate life for us. It sounds like they would benefit from some sort of counselling, and from reading some info. about Bipolar disorder, etc.
There is one organization I can think of to start with that may help, DBSA (Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance)
I picked up an info pack at my pdoc's office to show my husband, my biological family is already familiar with this disorder, my brother and other relatives are also Bipolar, my brother is Bipolar-I and I, Bipolar-II.
Not to stray, let me give you their phone number and website, perhaps they can mail you some of their info.pamphlets/packages to help educate those in your RL world. DBSA's phone# (800) 826-3632 or (312)642 - 0049
Website: www.DBSAlliance.org
Also, some of the books I listed at the top, "suggested reading", are and were very helpful providing info.

I wish you lots of luck,patience,and hope. Please do not give up on yourself, there is help and hope.

Take care now,
Rosanne

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