I seriously didn't think anyone would "click" with me. I had some bad T relationships, and was feeling like there was no way anyone would get me. My PDOC insisted I be in T, and since he knew me for over 3 years I trusted him to pick someone in his group. It was a really good match, of course I didn't know that until about the 8th or 9th visit ...lol. I knew he was right when I "spaced" at an appointment, and he caught it, leaned in and talked me back. He made me safe before he let me leave. I had several T's and spaced on a regular basis, but none of them ever noticed.