Good timing with this question--I actually brought it up w/ my T today.

She pretty much got away with not answering, by saying something about it being up to me. Last year she actually did say it was inappropriate, but then there were other issues around that so that isn't necessarily a good example.

I'm not sure yet what I'll do. I sort of feel like her "non-answer" was a way to avoid saying it's ok--in other words, I'm guessing it's sort of ok with her, but she'd prefer if I didn't. At least, that's my interpretation.

Argh..therapy can leave you feeling so vulnerable sometimes, and I'm definitely feeling that way tonight. It's so easy to feel rejected by the slightest thing.