I'm pondering the title. Earlier, I announced it as Self Love. It isn't really that....It's more Coping with an Absence of--or Having a Shaky--Self Love.

I've set up an album on my member page title Seligman's Strengths and Virtues. If you get a chance, go there before the chat. Some of what I hoped to chat about is there, and there is a cool website to go to and a survey to take there.

The scheduled time of day for the chat seems to be a bad one. When I look down at the bottom of the site, to find out who's even online at PsychCentral, only two or three of us are on at that time! I'm thinking of trying to move it.

Also, I think our chat should have 15 minutes at the start just to chat--as in, free chat. And I'd like to have a good 10 minutes at the end for free chat as well. We can always discuss "the topic" in our forum, so it's more important, to my mind, to have a scheduled chat where we can all gather.

It turns out that there are a couple of ways to do scheduled chats: either as formal support or education groups, OR as scheduled groups that are no-host and no-topic. We can do either--or both.

More than anything, I just want a time and place where we converse with each other in a group, spontaneously.

What do you want?