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Old Jan 05, 2011, 04:09 PM
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I do give a lot in these sessions to others...but when it comes to receiving, I'm at a bit of a loss. That's true IRL as well....
Group is a great place to work on this I think.

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when I reacted to some of the things that were said,
If you are reacting this means that you have things to work on in this group.

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a topic came up where it's hard for people to argue a feeling....but in my life, a feeling that is expressed to me may be a form of manipulation that is not a typical scenario....
I'm confused?

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I guess I just feel too "different" for this group at the moment....
Are there places where you don't feel different in your life?

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You reported that you couldn’t relate to the dialogue in the later part of the session as it was outside your realm of experience. I wondered about the people you are involved with and if they are capable of what we explored or whether you are in need of others who are closer to your level.
So he is questioning whether you get to experience IRL what was being discussed?

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I don’t use the word level as a slight against others, but as a representation of what you illustrated in the first half of the session. Telling XXX that you stood by your interest in sharing what’s important to you but being excited about his willingness to be convicted- is an acquired talent that is deserved of others who can do the same."
I don't understand this?
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