So speaking of this stigma I watched a movie called dinner for schmucks. In the movie there is a women who is the ex girl friend of the main character. I believe she is supposed to have BPD. I wonder is this what people think of us. Or was this just exaggerated as most everything else is in Hollywood. Has any one seen this movie who can relate to it. Have you stalked old boy/girl friend and attempted to sabotage his/her new relationship. I am still with the same woman so I don't know what I would do if and when she did leave me.