I wanted to post a reply to this thread.

I went through a terrible period of time with my depression, OCD and anxiety that it was physically impossible for me to leave my bed for 2 weeks. After that time, I could only make it to the living room for a long time. I was afraid to leave my house, look out the window, look into the mirror and forget about even driving. I was suffering tremendously both mentally and physically. I was paralized from doing things for myself for a period of time. I had to reply on others around me to help me. That was the first time in my life that I actually allowed myself to depend on others because I had no choice in the matter.

Thankfully, since that time, with therapy and meds, I have been able to do more for myself. I can drive now, although not for a long period of time. I still have trouble going to the grocery store as I panic very easily there so hubby will go with me.

I think that there are people out there that may take advantage of others kindness and perhaps they may depend on others a little too much. However, I personally feel that the bulk of people who suffer from mental illnesses need to depend on others for assistance as they need the help. Each person is different. Each dx is different. The way we heal and learn to deal with what we have to deal with plays a major part in what each individual is able to do for themselves.

I know for me, I longed for the day when I would be able to be more independant and do things for myself. I havent totally gotten to where I want to be but I can say that I am much better then I was last year at this time. Its a slow process.