So I bought Rachel Reiland's book get me out of here. BPD2 I see what you about feminine but I can still relate with behaviour similarities. I don't have gender issues like She did but definitely have issues with manhood. Feel child like sometimes. Sometimes feel like I'm treated like a child or as though folks walk on egg shells around me. Especially my family. I hate when someone refers to me as hey buddy. Feel like at the ball park and the coach is talking to me. I'm not your buddy not just what they say but inflection they really do sound like there talking to a kid. Well any way I'm at the 2nd chapter and I've alelreadrly cried Twice. So scary how different we all are but yet can be so much alike at the same time. BPDrs that is.