My husband has "good runs" (as he puts it). Times where he's in charge and everyone else works together with him and it's kinda like there isn't any split. Then there are other times where the fractures are really obvious to everyone and there's lots of infighting and switching and everyone ends up taking turns instead of working together. And sometimes one or the other will decide to be in charge even if it's not their turn or their job. And then there will be days or weeks where everything is smooth sailing again.

I'm on the outside, so it can be a little hard for me to describe it as well as he does. I know sometimes I'll come home and he seems a little...off, distant, out of phase. He always says he's fine and everything is OK, but usually a little while later someone will show up and let me know what's going on. Usually something under the surface or triggered by some event in the day.

We (Me, Jon and The Guys) all think that he's susceptible to seasonal/S.A.D. type changes as well. Winter (after the holidays) is usually pretty rough. Good nutrition and as much sunlight as possible seem to help him have better days. The less stress there is on the body, the less stress there is on the system.