Sure, give him a chance! You can't compare everyone to James. Forget that guy. How are you ever going to meet anyone if you compare everyone to him? Give this guy a chance -- but take it slowly. Don't get into a relationship immediately -- just be friends for awhile until you get to know him, and are able to establish COMPLETE trust in him. You don't want to get hurt. And if he DOES want to have a relationship, just tell him that you're coming off a big hurt, and you want to take it slow. Tell him that you have trust issues right now, and that's why you have to take it slow.
Good luck Jiakhan -- I wish you all the luck. God bless. Lee
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