Does anyone know of any good resources with help on how to parent when you are borderline? I feel so lost, I have to always ask people what is "normal" for children my age. My daughter has been diagnosed with anxiety and depression already, and is also having a lot of oppositional problems. How much of this is her, and how much is it because I am never sure of what I am doing. (I realize no parent is "sure", but I feel like I am extra "clueless"). I feel so lost sometimes and would like a book like "Tips for Parenting When You Are a Borderline" or something. Anyway, just thought I would ask, and I would appreciate any help in this area. Thanks and Hugs!