He assaulted BOTH of you. Period end. I can't believe the system turned on you after you turned to them. There is jsut so much left to be done around educating the beaurocracy....
(How do you spell that?) I found domestic violence community orgs have group and individual coucelors that are free. They are so on top of this crappola.... you might could find the kind of sprecific support you need.
Of course, we're here for you too..... LOL you are a good person. ))) ))))Lexy(((( ((((