I wasn't 'looking' either.....I just asked my dr. about short-term counseling for what I thought could be taken care of after a few sessions....although I was aware that the root was deeper than the actual issue at the time. So he gave me a referral...when she called me about the referral, I loved her voice...it sounded so warm and kind. And when I went, I simply had a feeling that I could trust her, I felt comfortable with her and with talking to her, and I just liked her style - she was straightforward and clear. She was also obviously smart and knew her stuff, warm and professional at the same time. So.....she just felt right....and I kept going and turns out she was the right one for me!