Kat, that sounds like the kind of Pdoc I would like... I will try to talk to my T in our next session about possibly seeing a different Pdoc. I do know what I want and I have a good idea of the kind of treatment I want/need. Typically I can deal with my problems using my support system of friends and family, as well as research. This has just been the one thing that I have been unable to overcome.

Chicken_Wing, I'm glad that you have a pdoc now that seems to be working for you. It seems like 3 might be the magic number! haha

Sugahorse, my Pdoc takes my SUI thoughts and all very seriously. However it seems that my T already knows how I feel about things, even though the session with the Pdoc was the only real time I had with her so far. Being a new patient and all. I agree that the Pdoc and T conferring with eachother is important and I know that I'm already going to encourage them to discuss me together.. or just request my T to sit in every session with my Pdoc. That way the T has first hand knowledge of what goes on between me and the Pdoc...

At the same time i know that can cost time that the T might not have.

But thank you all for responding! I feel a bit better about the idea of requesting a different Pdoc. I'd feel bad if I offended the woman... Which might be my major draw back.