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Originally Posted by Elana05
Distressed,
Do you ever have a quiet moment with your sister that you could mention this to her? Mention that you feel like she always wants to compare to you, but you don't care about any of that stuff. Would you ever be able to tell her honestly "I have been very sad" or ask if there was any way you could truly open up to one another? It may not be possible... this I understand.
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Elana,
I can't say ANYTHING TO HER. once I was trying to let her know how something really hurt me, and she just started yelling and shouting at me. How does one communicate with someone who's constantly aggressive in communication and always takes things personally and manipulates you...
Once I borrowed her belt, and she just started accusing me "oh you're gonna break it arent you? you're just using me... YOu're going to break my belt on purpose, blah blah blah"... and No she's not referencing to the past because no such thing has ever occured.
If I tell her that our relationship is bothering me, she'll just start blaming me for everything... I've just given up on that relationship alltogether.
Once I was staying at her house, and it was freezing cold this one night, and I'd forgotton my jacket in her room, it was 10 pm, she was still awake, she doesn't sleep until 1 am.. so I knocked on the door, and she freaked out and started yelling at me that I wasn't considerate and this and that. BUt what am I supposed to do?? Its so cold, I needed a jacket or I couldn't fall asleep!
I would expect her to be a little considerate and understand how cold it is and how one cannot sleep without a jacket.