I find it hard...I can't stay concentrated on their conversations and concerns so I just trail off. So I am not very good at being supportive. Also after a couple months I grow bored of my friend and move on to another friend....not exactly nice but I can't seem to help it. It is strange, for like 2 months I only concentrate on 1 friend (maybe hyperfocus?) then after 2 months I grow tired of that friend and move on....it is just something I cannot seem to stop myself from doing.