Thank everyone who has responded to this! I might just to admit that my t shares the title of world's best t? I don't like to share, but I will

It's so cool to hear of the great relationships out there. Just like it's great to know that we're not alone in pain, grief, etc., it's great to know that we can share the cool things too!

I've seen t again since I've written this and he's still just the best. He's walked down SO many roads with me...holding my hand and letting me know that I don't have to walk it alone. That was so alien to me that I couldn't imagine it for a long time...someone walking the LONG mile of abuse with me??? Someone holding my hand while I recognize more abuse that I didn't see??? For years, I spent almost the entire time giving some and expecting him to disappear (I just knew that would happen). Not only did he not disappear, but when it got REALLY rough he held on tighter! DANG! I had to learn to accept that. I think that was the biggest thing. His patience, understanding and consistency is awe inspiring...truly.

I'm so blessed. It's so great to see that many of us are!

KD