Agreed, it might well be that he hasn't felt as if it has negatively affected your therapy, or for whatever reason you have need of the contact because of some aspect of your problems r personality. By all means, take it up, but I agree as a question. If he has not attempted to initiate a relationship with you that you feel is not OK, or has made comments to you that are not OK, or has initiated contact with YOU, then it is best to be carefull about being too accusatory; he might simply be more comfortable with more generous limits than others would be, and might be so with all his patients, or at least with those he feels won't be harmed by it. HUGGGGS