Thanks Yellowrose.

I know this is not about me. This guy is pretty much lost, and he's now using my address as his I found out. i got a notice in the mail from his bank that is a repo notice for his car! So, I calmly called the bank and informed them that they had the wrong address and they explained to me he would have had to provide that address himself, in person or in writing. Well, they verified that the account did not have me as a co-signer and asked me if I had contact information for him. I gave them what I knew (an address and a couple of phone numbers).

This is really hard for me. I'm working through a lot of issues on my own... the loss of a marriage, the "death" of someone I loved, even though he's not really dead, he's not the person he once was, and a lot financial issues as well as working through all of the emotional side affects of all of this.

The child support issues and his strange behavior just make it harder to recover.