This all sounds so familiar.....and, yes, I'm in debt too!
But I've stopped being so giving and generous. The bitter pill I'm swallowing right now is trying to sell my nice house in order to buy something much cheaper.
Dumped!...been there. Am I bitter and cynical now about the human race? NO!, but no longer inclined to give my heart and soul (and money) so readily! Never again give to someone who is not at least as generous and like-minded as you are!
Healing thoughts,
Seeker Patty