I normally do not comment on other's responses to threads but - I have to point that Monkey's way may cause you further harm. Control and action from fear and belief that things cannot be better for you are not healthy. And repair in some situations may never happen and /or can involve a lot of hurt and a lot of time. Not all guys cheat and you deserve the best. I am not saying leave him. I m just saying that this line of thinking /acting may lead you via a hurtful path. In the end of the day - you must do what is right for you dear one.