I agree with you that multiplicity is a brilliant coping mechanism. It amazes me how, at such a young age, my brain was able to come up with something so unique to help me survive. Welcome back to PC and I am glad to meet you. I am not in a relationship either, but I would love to hear about any coping skills or ideas you may have that work for you. I am struggling with putting "tools" in my "tool kit" for when I need them. I am glad that you have church and other resources during your financial difficulties. These are some pretty hard times you are going through. Welcome back, again.

Cris from the hotel